The Great College Debate: Why We're Asking the Wrong Question

Families often ask, “Is college worth the high cost?” With rising tuition and competitive admissions, it's easy to understand this concern. But maybe this isn't the best question to ask. Instead, families should ask: “What is the real purpose of college?” Answering this question first can help students build a college list that truly fits their goals.

Today, there's a big debate about what college is really for. Some people say college should mainly prepare students for jobs, ensuring they earn good salaries after graduation. Others argue that college should teach students broader skills, like critical thinking, clear communication, and being responsible citizens. But framing college as either job preparation or life skills sets up a false choice.


A Gallup-Bates College study shows a different perspective. College shouldn't just be about getting a job or learning life skills—it should help students discover their own sense of purpose. This purpose often comes through meaningful work.


Here's what the study found:


  • 80% of college graduates say it's important to find purpose in their work.
  • Only 38% of graduates actually find jobs that feel purposeful.
  • Graduates with purposeful jobs are ten times more likely to thrive in their overall well-being.


Two key experiences significantly boost students' chances of finding meaningful work:


  1. Real-world job experiences or internships: Hands-on work during college is crucial.
  2. Support from people around them: Faculty, staff, or peers who encourage students' dreams greatly enhance their chances of success.


Another critical factor is the skill of reflection. Students who learn how to reflect on their experiences are 67% more likely to find purposeful careers.


Why does this matter when building a college list?

  • Look for colleges that prioritize internships or practical experiences. Real-world learning shouldn't just be an option—it should be central.
  • Consider schools with strong, supportive communities. A positive, encouraging environment makes a big difference in student success.
  • Include colleges with strong liberal arts programs. These schools typically help students develop critical reflection skills, which are vital for long-term success.


When students and families focus solely on the "ROI" or the potential salary after graduation, they risk overlooking the most valuable aspects of a college education. Purposeful work doesn't just lead to financial stability—it leads to genuine happiness and well-being.


As you help your student build their college list, consider asking:

  • Does this college offer meaningful internship or hands-on learning opportunities?
  • Does this college have a supportive environment where students feel encouraged?
  • Does this college encourage students to reflect and think deeply about their experiences?


Shifting the focus from just financial return to purpose-driven education will help your student build a list of schools where they are more likely to thrive.


Ultimately, the question isn’t just whether college is "worth it," but whether the colleges your student chooses will help them find purposeful, fulfilling work. By asking the right questions early, families can guide their students toward schools where they'll truly thrive academically, socially, and personally.