1.  GRADES START TO GO DOWN 

If your student's grades start to trend downward a few issues might be at play. Oftentimes it’s an issue of motivation. Perhaps there’s a mismatch between learning and teaching style, or your AP Physiology student would rather be watching the History Channel. Understanding your students' passions and motivations is key. On the other hand, it’s possible your student is being overworked or is enrolled in too many AP classes. Keep in mind, when deciding between an AP or grade-level course, your student’s interest and ability come first, and it’s better for your student to excel in a grade-level class than flounder in AP. If you suspect your student’s grades are suffering due to anxiety, depression, or another mental health issue, seek proper and professional help. 

2. LACK OF ENGAGEMENT OUTSIDE THE CLASSROOM 

If your student struggles with engaging in activities beyond the classroom, there are a number of ways for families to help! Perhaps your student needs some guidance discovering their interests. If this is the case, trying out some activities or volunteer activities as a family could help bring a reluctant student out of their shell. Perhaps your student is more driven by independent activities and solitary pursuits. That’s great! Keep in mind, not every student needs to join a school-based club or group activity. Engagement comes in various forms, and it’s always best to put your student’s interests and needs at the helm. 

3. CONFIDENCE 

It’s common for teens (and adults!) to struggle with confidence, especially in academic and social situations. Putting yourself out there is hard, and parents are uniquely positioned to help build confidence in their kids. Is your student interested in an activity but shy? Wield a current interest to build social confidence. For example, shy students often flourish in activities like theater or Model UN. It also helps to have a mentor, like a coach, teacher, or older cousin take a reluctant student under their wing.